Monday, April 26, 2010

OutSourcing Parenting

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Outsourcing Parenting..
Sounds strange but its true and happening..  Knowingly or unknowingly we are doing it. In fact it was happening 50 years back also when our parents are child, but that time it was happening with different reasons and now the reason is different. As we know outsourcing means assigning our work to somebody who has more knowledge or specialization in that field.

In older days the children’s used to grown up in a joint family where the parents need not look at the child since there are enough people to look after and since they are family members ,child used to grow fast in a healthy environment with lots of love and affection. But over the years the families became single and staying out of native makes them stay alone. Both the parents are working and don’t have time for child so the parenting is outsourced to day care or something similar to this.

So how good is today’s parenting outsourcing compare to older days. Earlier it was automotive and compulsory since you never know when exactly you have really outsourced parenting, it just happened. But now it’s more of requirement of today’s world. Since both the parents are working Child has to be taken care by somebody and that’s how we pulled in day care guys.. But how good they are compare to the grandparents.. They do it for money so commitment will be till they know their money incoming is safe afterwards the commitment will go but the love and affection is missing. The food they are giving you can only wish its good. The people who are actually taking care of child are kind of maids only and how good culture they can provide God only knows.

Childs age of 1-5 years is the age where they learn maximum and if that time they will expose to learning from maids I guess we are doing a big mistake. We might not see the result immediately but in future it might hurt us dearly. We need to take a decision earning money is more important or growing the child is more important. The child will not get the childhood again so make the baby’s childhood the best one and probably we need to revisit our decision of putting our baby to Day care.
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Friday, April 23, 2010

Honeymoon In Manali

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Hmmm... Manali... cant explain the place as a Honeymoon(HM) destination.. i was on my HM in the month of Dec in early 4th week.. and wht a feeling it was.. i was just a week old into my coupling life.. i hardly know her as all the time she was busy with other members of the family and i reached Manali after 3 days of traveling... and the first look of Manali was awesome at 6 PM... i was fully tired after the hectic traveling but i was so excited by the beauty of the city that i was immediately on my toes to the city.. .. it was chilled outside.. and having a coffee with my better half was just giving the perfect warm...

Then the next day we started for a city trip... though we go walking but tell you after climbing the hilly roads reaching the Hidimba temple i was just amazed by the beauty if the simple temple.. it was the perfect location for the photographer to catch just wht he dreamed of... after taking a stomach full of pics of my wife we proceed into a place which is full of small small resorts.. n i tell u.. u will never see such beautiful resorts in ur lifetime with such cheap prices.. those resorts are best place to stay if u r in a group.. anyway... seeing those places is not possible if u take a taxi to see the city sightseeing.. i would rather suggest u to go around the city by walk rather than taking a cab which i saw a lot of people opt for... ..anyway it was a good 4 hours walk inside the city and we have seen enough for the day so time to come back to hotel..

Now evening the time to spent money to buy something which ur wife just thinking and she is kind of hesitating to tell you... u just need to understand ok.. she might be thinking of buying this... of that might be her choice at first sight n bla bla...

One thing i love about the locals over there is they just dont bother wt r u doing,i mean i have seen people doing hugging and kissing on the road and nobody is reacting... and u r absolutely safe..

NOw the day came for which i went to Manali to see the snow point and to play in ice/snow with my sweet heart.. That was the first time i was about to see the snow falled last night... and tell you the first look was much better then wht i thought of.. i feel as if somebody just put a sheet of cotton on the entire mountain.... doing skiing is not that easy.. the shoes are so hard and that to it was long till the knees... i tell u if u fall down u will have a tough time.. .. it was really fun doing that.... it was a full day trip outside the city .. so by the time i returned i was fully tired but bcoz it was 24th dec so we celebrated there in the hotel.. dance, masti, food, liquor.. really nice time...

There are lots of places you can see outside of city in the 80 km compound..

but i preferred to stay at hotel rather then going around the city..

Hmm.. and the last day at manali.. and i was bit sad that i was not able to see Snow fal.. but it was my luck within 2 hrs.. God gifted me and my wife a very pleasant surprise.. and Snow fall started for 2 hrs.. and i tell u.. i asked the local people they told very rarely happens that Snow fall happens during this time and with this weather. .so i was really lucky.. thats tha last thing i want from this trip.. thanks Lord....

I have been to Ooty,Goa, Kodaikenal. . nothing is comparable to Manali.. i would rather say that one should go to Manali in his lifetime... And i can bet u will love this place...

catch u guys...

Have good times..
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